Drunk Duda (Ceria Skalane Time)
MD212. Stories and in-laws

"Fin five days of marriage, it's been terrible. The day after you were taken to Lampung, how? Able to not take care of your husband, children and yourself alone?" asked my mother-in-law, when I visited so that Kirei would hold. 

I'm tired of being flipped over by Dinda and Adi's son, bestie. 

Right, now it has been five days married with financial problems. Because what? Gavin did not want to take care of the ATM card for me, citing the hassle of sharing. He said, if you need money just ask. Yes it sounds wise, but I'm lazy to always ask. He knows the living, should not be asked. I thought so, but he said that what he thought was not just about the division of money. Most importantly for her, she holds the money not to marry again. 

"Could have, Mah. Can't afford, ya stay home work first." I chuckled a little, with my body on the couch. Kirei must have been in the lap of his grandmother, he took with people he knew very closely. 

"Here you have your family helping Kirei, while you do your homework and take care of Gavin. There, you're alone. Tau himself, Gavin heavy hands to help something. He's not like Givan, who's got a dirty dish to wash. Not like Ghifar, who likes to help with house and yard work. Waking up is hard, right? From the first that, although discipline formed from small, but indeed his son so."

I looked at the ceiling. Right, my husband is like that. He was the heavy hand and the lazy wake up early, he had time to pray at dawn, but did not have time to move afterwards. He will sleep again until the sun is over his head. Breakfast at ten, eleven. Lunch at two o'clock, dinner out of the Maghrib. If at night he helps me take care of Kirei, sometimes he opens my clothes, when Kirei asks ASI. Not infrequently, he made a substitute for Kirei. 

"But what sucks is not homework, Mah. The proof, I can still play here or play to mbak Canda. But follow her wants, every waking up feels like a lack of sleep continues." I didn't describe it clearly, but mamah Dinda must have understood. 

How's his response? He just chuckles amusedly. 

"But to be honest, Dek? Mamah heard this complaint not from you alone, from another daughter-in-law too. But the son-in-law never did, either her husband Icut, or her husband Giska. Yes Mamah has no way out, Papah people until now the activity is still tight. Generally people age right, once a week, even once a month. Papah is still routine twice a week, often even three times. Never used rules, wanted to play. Papah's descendants, including his papah can not be sure kek Givan who knows the condition. He told me a story, Ghava said. Again sleeping, awakened, disturbed and asked to volunteer. Must be, do not understand anymore tired or sleepy. Aca never ngadu as well, until he was exhausted several times ngeladenin, until half fainted he said, uh still worked aja same Ghifar. Mamah has no way, other than you have to accept and enjoy. But the cake is not a hypers** feature really, if hypers** it is a day up to five times or more. Gavin isn't, is he?" Mamah explained uncensored in the inappropriate part. 

"A day is often two, but I am tired right. Limes, Mah." Either my body is shocked, or I am unusual. 

Not allowed to come out quickly, but after exiting asked to come out again if he is still a long time. More than satisfied, more than enough of the inner living he gave. 

"Yes later take health supplements, vitamins. Mamah had no other advice, because even young people feel bad too. Especially when pregnant, but still have to serve. Can't be in the early trimester, yes still used to say it's slow really, not hard. It's hard, it's so."

I think he has advice. 

"Until I'm tired of shampooing, Mah." Hearing me, he laughed amusedly. 

"Kirei what's going on? So the camera guy's dad's with Mom, huh?" Mamah Dinda invited Kirei to speak, Kirei certainly responded with her clean gums. 

"But not rude, right, Deck? Not Ken's cake, is it?" 

"No, Mah. Slowly it's crazy." I was massaging my temples thinking of Gavin's madness. 

"That's it, but it can request mode." 

Gavin boro - boro request mode. That afternoon alone he did a little strong, but still mixed it with slowly activities. He always laughs happily, seeing me fooled by his actions. 

"Initially it can be, long time still he who set." Right I can touch it. After that, he must finally be the one in power. 

I've exemplified as told mbak Canda, quite effective. Gavin was noisy, although he said there was no sensation as well. After following Canda's advice, he just like a scruff until he gripped what he could hold on to me. It was fun, but he didn't want me to be in control for too long. He said, because he felt not manly and not manly. 

"Normal, Riyana's descendant. He thinks that he is superior and superior to us. Don't be taken by surprise, Dek. Take it easy, don't be too much of a problem." Hearing his advice, I remembered about our financial regulator. 

Do I have to follow Gavin's rules? But I'm afraid he can't hold the money. I'm afraid, he's out of time to hold a lot of money. I intervened, because I wanted his treasure to be an item and not be wasted. 

"Anything else, too, Mah?" tanyaku carefully. 

I'm worried that I'm not complacent with the financial rules that his son is doing. She feared that she was defending her son. 

"Not everything. The bed, the money, the decisions, the control is strong. Yes, in the end, their own decisions are stronger. Sometimes it changes a little, but if the papah really if Mamah has been sulking yes directly obeyed all. Papah used to be afraid of Mamah coming home to Cirebon, so the cake was made to stay at home."

Where am I going home? Gavin has no fear. 

"What time, Mah? What am I going to do in the future, Mah?" It is still cool, but in the future how is our household? 

"Yes said, and love for what reason. For example, you want to cook one menu a day and one time, because the reason for the same trouble Kirei no one holds. Let him think. You don't need to hold a cooking strike event, which there is even him out of control, know for yourself if you're angry the sound of cake on the toa. You keep cooking a few menus and a few times, until his eyes see for themselves how determined you are, bother you and tired of you. Wait for him to feel sorry, wait for him to realize that we are not able to follow the rules. From the beginning of marriage, Mamah also got mentally in having to cook this. Must be, use the excuse too wasteful, was not rich. Use reason, for the sake of health and cleanliness of food. There was no part-time ART yet, or who lived here. So bothered to keep tuh, tired of doing, finally lazy in bed. Will so realize itself anyway, continue to be given an easier policy." 

Apparently, Mamah Dinda was once in a position of silence and upset because of the million husband rule apparently. Hmm, my classmate Dinda just like this. Especially my class? 

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