TALAQ
Part 45 TALAQ
The three of us were already sitting in the mediation room, the Religious Court officer began to open the file filing my divorce suit. Officers started mediation by introducing themselves to each other, the officer immediately questioned me about the lawsuit I filed.
"Mother, Afifah, are you sure of your decision to divorce Mr. Ringgo saputro?" ask the courteous officer.
"Yes, sir, I'm sure "my answer is firm and calm.
"You don't want to drop your lawsuit?" tanta officer to me.
"No, sir, I stick to my stance, if I still want to divorce from brother Ringgo saputro" I replied calmly.
"What, the reason you want to keep getting divorced from Mr. Ringgo saputro?" ask officer.
"First, during the period of almost eleven years Mr. Ringgo could not be a good priest for our family, he was already negligent with his obligation to God in performing the five prayers of the time, two years and two months ago Mr. Ringgo had dropped TALAK to me and returned me to my parents, after dropping TALAK Mr. Ringgo immediately left us without any news or a living, thirdly during the period of our marriage Mr. Ringgo also did not work so he did not give a living to me and my son, the four Ringgo vapors have insulted me by saying I am poor and only able to make the house like a chicken coop" I explained briefly and densely.
I said my reasoning with a sharp and calm gaze, everything I delivered verbally was in line with what I wrote in the filing letter two weeks ago. I began to see the aura of Ringgo's face shrinking even more let alone my eyes looking at him with a sharp and cold gaze like a tiger who was willing to pounce on his enemy.
"Astaqfirullah adzim, both my mother accept the mother's reason" said the officer "It's now Mr. Ringgo's turn, do you approve divorce from Afifah's mother ?" ask officer.
Mas Ringgo did not immediately reply, his mouth like stiff to talk, while my gaze remained a sharp gaze that was unsheathed.
"Mr Ringgo please explain!" officer's orders.
Mas Ringgo still did not answer he just kept silent without a word.
"Well, Mr. Ringgo is it true what Afifah's mother said earlier ?" ask officer.
"True sir" replied Mr. Ringgo briefly.
"What is your reason for divorcing Afifa's mother a year ago ?" ask the officer to Ringgo.
Hearing the reply from the Ringgo I only showed a cynical smile and remained with a sharp and cold gaze.
"It means not being able to accept how and why so mad Afifah ma'am - angry at you ?" ask officer.
"He was angry - angry because he asked me to help with homework and I didn't do it so I wasn't strong with scolding and angry - angry, he couldn't accept my situation " answer mas Ringgo.
"What circumstances?" cecar officers.
"He can't accept my situation if I don't work and don't earn " replied a little angry.
"Astaqfirullah haladzim, if you don't work from where your family can finance your family's life, do you have a daughter now nine years old ?" ask officer.
"Afifah who works in the Cakra five cigarette factory" replied mas Ringgo a little confident.
"Father didn't work at all, Afifah's mother's living expenses were all the cost, and you said you weren't strong because your wife was angry - angry about the trivial, the little thing, mr. Ringgo here who can not accept not the mother of Afifah but you as the head of the family, you should work hard to support your family, but even you who are negligent with your responsibilities" obviously the officer" Is every day Afifah's mother angry at you ?" ask officer.
"No" replied Mrs Ringgo.
"Mother, Afifah, is it true what Mr Ringgo said ?" ask the officer.
"Yes, right, and I do not ask for help every day, I ask for help if I have a lot of work and have to overtime new I ask him to help just to dry clothes or clean the house, he said, if I don't have time or if I'm tired, if I'm still able to do it myself then I do it myself, actually for clothes I can use laundry services but because of my income that fits so I do it myself so that my income is quite untik one month living costs "clearly I remain calm and firm.
"Here it is explained if you already have a house, from which the cost to build a house, Mr. Ringgo can be explained!" pinta.
"The cost to build a house using savings from Afifah's work and borrow from a cooperative from the Afifah factory" explained mas Ringgo.
Hearing the explanation from the Ringgo mas, I saw the expression of the officer just a ringing the head and while continuing to beristigfar.