Being late in love
follow-through

After they exchanged information, it was given time for the two candidates to return home 2 and given a grace period to think or istikharah, or, then if the couple already feels suitable then it will be continued in the next process, which is when the sermon time and the next process.

They both agreed to think a week later that they would meet again, and at that time each of them would answer whether this relationship continued or stopped here.

A week has passed, too,...

WELL, when the ta’aruf process becomes the choice to go towards marriage perfecting the religious half. Picking up a life partner, an angel of the world and the afterlife. There needs to be a provision for a wedding process.

The bond of the sermon is more familiar in Islam, while in the community it is known as the engagement bond. There is a misunderstanding that is spreading in the public. That is when a fiancee is considered to be half married. In a sense they are like husband and wife. You can go duanana and so on.

But actually it's wrong. In Islam there are still limitations even after the sermon. The sermon is a promise to marry, nothing more.

So, syar’i they are not half official as husband and wife. However, only two parties promise each other to have a marriage. SYar’i still open opportunities for both to decide or not continue to the marriage.

Many abuse ta’aruf to bind the girl so as not to marry each other, even though this guy is not ready to get married in the near future. Of course this is very detrimental for the girl because she became ‘digantungin’ without any clarity of status regarding her marriage. Therefore, Islam also regulates the distance between the ta’aruf process with this sermon or application should not be too long. In general, about one to three weeks from the start of the introduction until finally the application is official. 

So today neither Lidya nor Rudi will give their answers for the continuity of their relationship,

Eko:" So what about Lidya? Do you want to continue this relationship?"

Lidya nodded her head.

Rudi:" Yes, I accept Lidya as my future wife sir.."

Eko:" Well, since they both have agreed to this match, then I will ask Rudi to represent the Lidya family, when surely Rudi will propose to Lidya?"

Rudi:" 3 more days, after I apply for Lidya, I will return to Ausi for graduation preparation for about 2 weeks. and early next month I will take care of the wedding file, and, it just so happens next month Lidya's birthday I choose the 26 oct date for the date of the marriage contract and reception"

Eko:" How about you Lidya?"

Lidya:" I can sir, I'll take care of the wedding files that are here."

Eko:" Well, we've agreed to a wedding on the 26th. So for mother and father Lidya can already get ready yes take care of everything for the marriage of Lidya and Rudi."

And after tonight's meeting, Lidya and Rudi were busy with their respective activities, until their wedding day.

⁇ ️Green needs support, brother,,

oh yes, after the wedding of Lidya and Rudi did we finish it aja yes.toh they already got each other couple2..😀😁