Suffering Becomes Happiness
chapter 23
Then Icha answered his friend's question calmly....
"Yes really.!! I'm the same Adit, and I'm committed to our relationship with Adit that will be mediocre, because remembering me and Adit is just like you guys in this case pursuing a career. !! My relationship with Adit is not much of a problem. This means we should not blame our relationship first because considering we are still both pursuing careers, until eventually I and Adit will arrive at the right time to continue this problem. It means whether Adit proposed to me or how it was me and Adit thought before.!! And I happen to still not know about this to bokap and nyokap me, plan emang tonight I will tell the news to bokap and nyokap about my relationship and Adit.!! And Adit is like that too.!! He will tell Bokap and his nyokap.and this signifies our seriousness in terms of romance.... Because it is nothing, Adit and I committed this relationship in addition to bokap and nyokap should know, the reason I and Adit in order to feel calm and not seem stealthy in living it.!! After all, if you and I agree.... I want this relationship to be a blessing until the end of the marriage. That's what I mean.!!"
After Icha explained to his friends, then Icha asked his friends....
"Well now I want to ask you all.!! What do you think of my relationship is Adit.!! Do you agree or what.!? Because it's nothing, yeah.!! I am very important to tell all of you, and ask all of you.!! Because I think you guys are not just regular friends anymore, but you guys I consider as my brothers all.!! And if you agree, I beg your support.!! If you disagree, tell me why.!! Because I think we here are one.?! It means you guys I am in a struggle, both far from our family and home country.!! So I beg you all to give me input, and I ask for your consideration on this matter.!! So how are you guys.??"
Hearing Icha's words, Icha's friends answer....
"If we think so.... We agree very much.!! And we all support your relationship ama Adit.!! Because indeed you and Adit are compatible and suitable... Adit handsome and pinter.... While you are beautiful and also smart.!! So less what else.!? So there is no reason for all of us to disagree.!! We're all here anyway, come to think of it.... You can say junior elu.!! So we mean... You are our senior in every way.!! Because if you count it too.... Our degrees in education, especially at the university that is now, it is thanks to you.!! Because you are a very special student.!! So there's no reason for us here not to approve and support you and Adit.!! And also in our opinion, your plan is correct if you want to know about your relationship with Adit to Bokap and nyokap you.!! because that way, we think you're the status of his relationship with Adit is official" in the sense that not cats.!! So you if you've got the blessing of bokap and nyokap you.... That Lu will feel calm in living it, and will not interfere with your education as Adit.!! And the one that matters according to us.!! We all know who you are and who Adit is.!! So we do not think we are worried even though you are in a relationship is not in a hurry.!! It means that we believe ama lu and Adit that you will not damage the relationship, or tarnish the relationship.!! Because we believe you and Adit according to us all are people who firmly hold the principles, and firmly hold the norms of religion.!! So we're sure of that. So once again I'm sure of you... You have to believe ama-we all, that we are all of these supporting you or supporting your relationship as Adit is born and inner.!! "That's friends..!!"
Say the Icha friends then the friends of the letter simultaneously say....
"Yes.!!"
After listening to the statements of his friends.... Then Icha felt relieved and moved. Then Icha immediately got up from her seat in the dining room, then hugged them all, and they all hugged together.
Then after a while Icha said to his friends, and Icha told his friends that Icha would be nervous about his relationship with Adit to Pak Hartono and Sumiatun's mother.
Then Icha said....
"Alright guys.... If so I will immediately call to nyokap and bokap me to inform them, that me and Adit are now already so.!!"
Then his friends answered....
"Oke Icha please.!! So we can ngedengerin not discuss you ama nyokap and bokap you ??"
ask his friends to Icha....
Then Icha answered....
"Yes of course dong.!! You have to support me.!! So you guys help me to make sure you bokap and nyokap me.!! So you should dong with me, all of you talk to them.!!"
Shortly thereafter Icha immediately called Mr. Hartono and Sumiatun's mother with CALL video... And after they were connected, Icha immediately said hello to them....
"Hello "Assalamualaikum" Papa and Mother.!!"
Then Mr. Hartono and the Sumiatun immediately answered the greetings from Icha through the CALL video....
Then Icha started by saying hello and asking how they were doing....
"How are you and Mom, are you okay.??"
Then Mr. Hartono and Sumiatun's mother answered and asked back to Icha....
"Alhamdulillah" good Icha.!! Icha herself how is it, is Icha okay.?? And how are Icha's friends there.??
Then Ica's friends who heard and knew them were asked by Mr. Joko and Sumiatun's mother through the CALL video, so they immediately greeted Mr. Hartono and his mother Sumiatun while waving his hands through the CALL video....
"Hi om and aunt... We're fine.!!"
Then after Pak Hartono and Sumiatun's mother returned a wave of hands from Ica's friends, then they asked Icha....
"Icha We're glad Ica called us here, and we happened to miss Icha.!! It's been a while, too... No phone.!! Only now did Icha call us, whereas we ourselves happened to be busy with the construction behind our house.!! But by the way what did Icha call us here.?? Is Ica just a miss or miss, or is there something else to talk about.??"
Ask Mr. Hartono and Sumiatun's mother to Icha...
Then Icha answered the questions of Mr. Hartono and Sumiatun's mother....
"Look Pah and mom.... Actually there is something Icha wants to convey to Papa and mom.!! But previously Icha apologized if if what Icha said later papa and Mother did not like it or did not like it, or Papa and Mother did not agree it is okay Icha ready to be reprimanded.!! But if it will be papa and Mother agree, then Icha beg for support and Icha beg for guidance to live it.!!"
Mr. Hartono and Ms. Sumiatun who heard Icha's statement became curious and confused, because it sounded to them what Icha would say later was very important. So Mr. Hartono and Sumiatun's mother became very curious and focused on listening to what Icha would say later.
Then the two of them immediately asked and immediately told to convey what the Icha would say...
"What's the Icha.!? Just say it, boy.!! How does it seem so important.!? It's okay.!! We are ready to listen to whatever Icha will tell us.!! Just say it, boy.!!
Then Icha began to tell them the problem slowly and clearly....
"Look Papa and Mom.... Actually what Icha wants to tell you is very important for Icha, and that papa and I know.!! So this is how Mom, Icha and Adit like each other and love each other.!! And that feeling we have conveyed to each of them, namely: Adit conveys his feelings to Icha, and Icha has conveyed the feelings of Icha to Adit.!! And even the two of us are now made up.!! So that means we're both already dating.!! But we are committed that even though we are made, but our relationship will be mediocre. We will not focus on our relationship before our respective careers are achieved.!! So papa and I don't worry, because we are in a relationship not based on mere lust.... But indeed this relationship we live with the deepest feelings and hearts.!! And we have committed, this relationship insya "God" later we will bring to the guarantee.!! So Icha tells papa and Mom with the intention, "one" please pray blessing if you and Mom agree.!! But if it is papah and I disagree it is okay.!! Then Icha and Adit are ready to accept the consequences.!! So what do you think of Papa and Mom.?? Is our relationship condoned, or do Papa and Mom agree.?? And if indeed Papa and Mother agree, Icha please guidance him and please input.!! If you disagree, that's okay.!! How's Pa, mom.??"
Ask Icha to Mr. Hartono and Sumiatun's mother.....
Then Mr. Hartono and Sumiatun's mother, who heard Icha's words, were silent for a while and they looked at each other. Because they did not expect that Icha would convey those words to the two of them. On the other hand they feel that Icha is not a child anymore.... Icha is an adult who can take care of himself and can already distinguish what is good and what is not. So that's what made them a mind at the time. But on the other hand even though Icha is not a child anymore and can distinguish which is good or not, and even Icha himself has conveyed to them, he said, that the relationship would not be the main focus in his mind in America.... But as parents Pak Hartono and Sumiatun's mother feel worried, because after all they feel worried about Icha because next to Icha is a girl, after all Icha is now overseas or away from them now. That is what is on the minds of both of them.