The Effects of Early Marriage
79 Baby Blues, Postpartum Depression (PPD), and Anxious Disorders

"Freya, what are you, Chiro nangis gini you are silent!" Arby who today came home quickly because the lecturer did not enter, went straight into the room as soon as he heard Chiro crying.

"You dong take care of the change. I'm tired every morning in the afternoon of the night to take care of him. He will open only my son, but your son too. Take it out there, dizzy me. Free to have a baby sitter but can't help to take care of Chiro."

Every day Freya was always crying, stress because suddenly so young mama certainly not an easy thing, let alone married not because of his own wishes.

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Baby Chiro is breastfeeding Freya, which actually makes Freya ticklish.

"God." Freya grimaced as baby Chiro sucked in a loud pu**, causing Freya to unilaterally stop giving the ASI, which further caused Chiro to cry loudly.

"You're right, Frey."

"Don't blame me. You're the one who takes care if you really feel smarter and good at Chiro."

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For the next two days Freya locked herself in a room. Chiro was only given formula milk and the remaining ASI that had been pumped by Freya.

"Baby blues is caused by hormonal changes after childbirth. At the time of pregnancy, the hormones estrogen, progesterone and so on are increased, but after childbirth, the hormone immediately decreases dramatically. That caused his mood to also undergo a change.

The characteristics of the baby blues themselves are generally:

👉The mood is easy to change

👉Axiety

👉Sad

👉Enlightened

👉Feel the blame

👉Set crying

👉No concentration

👉Experts an eating disorder

👉Difficult to sleep

How to handle denfan eating healthy food, sunbathing and so on. Baby blues are still very common.

The baby blues may develop into Postpartum Depression (PPD) or Postpartum Depression. The symptoms are more intense and can last until one knows after delivery.

Its characteristics are:

👉Depression/severe mood swings

👉Excessive crying

👉Having difficulty establishing a bond with a baby

👉Pulling away from family and friends

👉Experts an eating disorder

👉Difficult to sleep or sleep on

👉Excellent fatigue or loss of power for activity

👉Easy to anger

👉Depressed, ashamed, feeling guilty not mamou being a mother

👉Can't concentrate or think genius

👉Active

👉Ixpensive and having a panic attack

👉Have a thought to hurt yourself and the baby

If the baby blues are caused by hormonal changes, then PPD is caused by a combination of physical, psychological and psychosocial problems.

Handling is also more serious, by way of giving drugs by doctors and counseling.

The last one is anxiety disorder. Its characteristics:

👉Difficult concentration

👉Worrying about all things

👉Worrying about long-term life, even those that are still many years old are already worried

👉Having excessive anxiety about many things

👉Worrying about yourself can't take care of a child

👉The feeling of worry that interferes with daily activities

Those are the three disorders that can occur in women who have just given birth" explained Dr. Gani.

Whether they feel guilty or not by forcing this marriage, because more negative things happen. Yes, they just say it in their hearts, because they may be ashamed to admit they are wrong, or feel their actions remain right, or want to blame each other?

Never mind, the rice has become porridge.

Arby is back in college online.

Elya and Ami take care of their work from home (Ami, Wildan, Anya and Vanya are temporarily staying at Arlan's house).

Freya remained in her room. Doctors are already giving medications to reduce her depression as this is already above the baby blues.

Irma also provided counseling that Freya had no use for.

Patience and adikas

Two words that Freya herself was already tired of hearing from Irma's mouth. Freya has tried to accept her destiny, but theory is not as easy as practice.

At the age of 17, she became a mother, and she is still a student. Where her peers are busy studying and walking to the mall, she already bears the responsibility of a baby boy.

Arby himself feels guilty, because baby Chiro is not easily approached by just anyone. Only Freya and Arby have been able to calm her down.

The nights Arby would wake up, feed him milk, change diapers, play games and put him back to sleep. Before dawn baby Chiro will wake up again. Arby's sleeping hours are falling apart. His college work is neglected.

This is what Freya felt.

Freya and Arby often quarrel because of each other's obligations.

"You're her mom."

"You're the daddy."

"Take a minute."

"You think I was thinking that you were sleeping? To mall?"

"I'd like to do a paper first, Frey."

"I also have to study, three more days of national exams."

"I also want a final semester exam, a lot of assignments that I have to collect to the lecturer."

"Eatya if you do not want to take care of children, do not make it."

"It's not just me who's wrong, you too. Tell me who you're wrong in the room."

"You who should have come later can sleep in another room."

"I'm aware it's you."

Their cries rang out into the living room. Bany Chiro cries in Arby's arms.

The housekeepers wanted to get closer, but were afraid.

Elya and Ami came in a hurry.

"You guys why, anyway. Poor baby Chiro."

"He's a very selfish person."

"Do you think you're not selfish?"

"Just don't bother me, you take care of Chiro."

"You can't be selfish, Frey."

"This pity, Chirona is still a child."

"Even, you can only blame me. If it wasn't for your selfishness, I wouldn't have married young and have children now. You dong should bear the consequences. Aunty and mom really want to have a grandchild, I already love grandchildren. Next you dong who is responsible, do not want to be good. Anything he wants to obey, anything he wants to obey. I have to be like this, I have to."

Arlan and Wildan who had just returned home to hear the feud, could only massage their eyebrows.

These two families should be happy to get a small champion successor to the family of Zanuar and Abraham. Especially the Zanuar family, who eventually had male successors.

But the quarrel of two young parents who are still unstable is ruining the happiness that should be created. Not to mention the cry of baby Chiro who has not stopped, enliven the atmosphere of the house due to the quarrel that occurred.

"Stop, you should work together to take care of baby Chiro" said Ami.

"Well, do it well."

"I'll take care of Chiro, Frey."

"Most of all I take care of you."

"I've been defending online college so I can help you take care of Chiro."

"That's a proud doang. I'm also an online school, not just you."

"Keep what now?"

"I want us to separate!"

"Okay, I'll kabulin your request as long as one condition."

"You lied to me the most."

"I'm not gonna lie."

"What's the condition?"

"If we split up, Chiro's custody falls into my hands, and you can't see her again, what?"