
Tristan just kept quiet, tried to swallow his saliva, waiting for the most illogical answer that Lana Lan would get to master oxo.
Instantly Lana Lan smiled, staring in master oxo's face.
"I'm a Muslim, it might sound like the most illogical of reasons"
"We didn't date, didn't know each other well before her"
"Married to the Islamic Sharia, by holding the concept of Islam"
"It's like the term ta'aruf, but the method in the early reality of our marriage was a little wrong, but when I accepted this marriage, I made a decision by taking the line of thinking of dating after marriage"
"And I'm sure it will feel much more beautiful"
" the purpose of marriage in Islam is to build a family of sakinah, mawaddah, wa rahmah. This is stated in the Quran letter Ar Ruum verse 21
Arabic: ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇
Latin: wa min ayatihi an khalaqa lakum min anfusikum azwajal litaskunu ilaiha wa ja'ala bainakum mawaddataw wa ra mah, inna fi elika la`til liqaumiy yatafakkarn
Meaning: And among His signs (greatness) is that He created pairs for you of your own kind, that you may tend and feel at ease with him, and He has made among you a feeling of love and affection. Verily, in this there are signs (of the greatness of God) for the thinking people.
The Hadith of Bukhari and Muslim history explains that marriage also aims to protect themselves from adultery. This is also the basis of the law of marriage in Islam.
The Prophet said, "O young men, whosoever of you has been able to bear the responsibilities of the family, should marry immediately, for by marriage you are better able to subdue your gaze and guard your cock."
In addition, marriage is also one way to strengthen worship. This is in accordance with the hadith about marriage narrated by Baihaqi, the Prophet said, "If a servant is married, then it is half his religion perfect. Then fear Allah SWT for the remaining half."
"i don't love my husband, nor do I ever want to make him my love"
"Don't want to love yourself the wrong way"
Instantly Tristan turned his head, master oxo raised his eyebrows
"A love relationship will definitely meet a saturation point, not only because of boredom, but because the chemical content in the brain that activates love is exhausted. The feeling of infatuation and love in someone will not last more than 4 years. If you are 4 years old, love disappears, and all that is left is the encouragement of***, not pure love anymore.
"For in my point of view, the feeling of infatuation arises at the beginning of falling in love caused by the activation and production of specific chemical components in the brain, in the form of the hormones dopamine, endorphins, pheromones, oxytocin, etc, neuropinephrine that makes a person feel happy, flowery and radiant. But as time passes, and the storm of responsibility and life dynamics of the effects of those hormones diminishes and disappears."
"I don't want this kind of love fate to hit our marriage, because as time goes on my love will eventually be buried deep"
"When I no longer enjoy the soft cradle of love from her, I will eventually become bored, and vice versa with her"
"There is the most logical term that can be an example of her, if I love my partner because of her beauty or good looks, then at this time I am sure the assumption that she is the prettiest and most handsome person, he said, then over time I and she will age and our love has finally worn off on its own in a lingering manner"
"If my love for him grows because he is a rich man, then I am sure his wealth is no longer spectacular in my eyes"
"If my love begins to blossom because he is a person of high standing and prominent in society, then one day the position no longer shines as bright as the one that once dazzled my view."
"Maybe the point of view of my love for my husband sounds the most illogical in your ear, but I love my husband because God is not because he is personal, because I believe he can be a priest for the life of my hereafter, and he God willing will be a father who loves his children"
Mr. Oxo seemed silent, closing for a moment his eyeballs in a long time.
tristan was clearly at a loss for his words.