The Father Boy
ALA53'S CHAT. Advice to the newlyweds
"Try this, I'll have a chat." Givan keeps Ceysa from entering the house.
"There's a Hadi, Dad." Ceysa glanced at her husband.
"Yes here is Ceysanya too." Hadi gave her a place, but Ceysa preferred to sit like the top corner of a triangle.
"Dayyan slept?" ask Givan later.
"Yes, Dad." Ceysa kept glancing at her husband, she already had a feeling that her husband complained of her frustration last night.
"Don't be rude to the husband, Deck. Husband's own time bitten to ginu." Givan advised her son in front of her husband.
"It was, Dad. Just piss off, make me anxious."
Givan had guessed the child's answer. How else, he realized his son was still young.
"There is a term for honeymoon, for those who are newly married. Because the newlyweds in a matter of months it still feels beautiful, it still feels sweet. It's only been a few days, you guys?" Givan used his soft speech, to convey it to his son's heart.
"I am, what? I can't think, if I don't have money. That's the cake, it's dark, Dad." Ceysa looks so sad.
Givan knew the habits of Ceysa's biological father, which were almost exactly the same as Ceysa's. How else would you like? Will not be able to change, because it has become the belief of Ceysa and his character.
"What idea do you have? Looking forward to next month's bookkeeping?" Givan tries to discuss, rather than decide unilaterally which is not necessarily suitable for his son.
"Sheaths, but Hadi won't." Ceysa glanced back at her husband.
"If you don't want to, don't. Efforts if done so forced, surely the result is nil. Don't sell mean sarongs." Givan understands it has to do with sincerity, when it comes to effort.
"Any ceysa don't want to sell a chicken geprek?" It was Hadi's turn to look at his wife.
Givan patted his own eel. For him, the marriage of Ceysa and Hilah had been like uniting a child.
"Udah ah! Is that husband and wife? Don't sell, no one's mentally ready. How about opening a photocopy service? Later Dad rented shop near campus, Hadi ngampus open a photocopy. Or, tell that guy?" Givan believes there has been an effort, but there is no harm in trying.
"No, Dad. I was there photocopying, photo printing, laminating, printing and invitation printing." Hadi refused quickly.
Givan breathed. "Yes, Dad, please. See how the book will be next month."
"Don't want me! Hadi told me to be independent, Dad." Even Ceysa's tone was like a pushy whining child.
"Patience, Ceysa. Hadi's still in college, Hadi's still confused."
Givan's head immediately pulsed. He massaged his temple, then looked at the child and his daughter-in-law in turn.
"Ceysa, Pretty. Dengerin Daddy first, Dek. Independence comes with its own consciousness, Ceysa forced to not love Hadi eat, his mind will not open. Patience, Dad was never in a position not to be independent. We just have time to wake up. Ceysa is patient, let Ceysa remain his companion Hadi until old age. That cake for Dad. Udah, his family path rationed Dad first. We'll look at the bookkeeping next month. Patience huh?" Givan tries to mediate between the two and win his son over.
"So if it's abandoned, even delicious!" Ceysa's hand moved with anxiety, he always wanted to pinch Hadi's stomach.
Givan held his son's hand, with Hadi protecting his stomach. He chuckled amusedly, looking at his wife who looked upset.
"Sir, the ashes of an independent figure. You should sample your ashes, Di." Givan patted his daughter-in-law's thigh.
"Yes ready, Dad. New people marry two daily, immediately scattered like this. Ceysa did not want to enjoy the same time Hadi first? People are in a hurry. Buy this, buy that, come here. Money's up, snatch." Hadi looked gently at his wife.
"Women are, Di." Givan understood the household drama of his son.
"It's not so, Dad. What cake is that? This wrong cake. Hadi, it's like this. Hadi, don't be like this. Hadi is not right, it should be like Hadi. Ceysa wasn't so, uh one house even so. Fussy right, it's Dayyan's cake." Hadi was thrown in front of his father-in-law.
"You should know that the man in the place is wrong. Your wife isn't pretty, you're the main cause. Because your money's not enough, because you don't love him time, because you're not understanding. Just not enough money, you should be able to set a time to replace him for Dayyan. Because you can not care for yourself or to the clinic with your child, Di. Another example is like this. You asked Ceysa to cook good, but the money wasn't enough. Keep blaming Ceysa, but it's more wrong that you because of the love of shopping money is not how much. Example again, dirty house, laundry pile, messy stuff and you don't want to clean up. You can't blame Ceysa, 'cause you forgot that your son is keeping Ceysa. If she focused on housework, your son would be abandoned. Meanwhile, you assume Ceysa was a household master when your son slept. You forget, that your wife is human. Your son's sleeping, it's a chance for him to take a break. Cause you don't understand Ceysa, but you need a clean house. Indeed, all housewives are certainly capable. But not a few housewives that Dad said. Children Fathers from childhood are often fussy if the night, how to cope? Yeah replace staying up late. Father from midnight, till the early hours. Biyung sleeps anyway, because effective rest is still at midnight. In the early hours of dawn, I woke up the biyung. Father change rest, stay up until morning. Because what? Because I have to work tomorrow morning, I have to be fresh, so I have to take a break for that. But, at home. Dad left for work, at eight hours nine our children drowsy and sleeping, can not be come to rest too tuh. That's what Dad thinks, if the child is fussy. So it doesn't have to be all awake, it doesn't have to be all bother. Change, let our activities remain smooth tomorrow morning. Dad can still work, so do not drop to take care of the child because staying up all night. Can't you guys be so? Cooperation, mutual understanding. You don't have to think either, Ceysa's wrong I keep going. Loh, indeed the man is wrong. Because as a result, we are like this, so our wives are like this. We are, so our wives are. There is no need to be too deep, to look at yourself. Not that Ceysa was carelessly wrong Hadi also with the explanation of the father who was cool, Ceysa must understand if Hadi was trying to fix everything again. Your economy, your relationships, your warmth and responsibility to you. You should also think in a broad direction, Di. Keep the behavior, remember that the law of the harvest is true. Do not arbitrarily act to others, remember the wife's child at home. Open is not about clothes, but about the involvement of all. Frankly, if there is an attitude of a partner who is not pleasing to the heart. The question of economics must also be equally, in the sense of equally struggling. For example, Hadi struggles to find money, Ceysa struggles to collect money and lose money. Because of your money, losing is intended for your future, yes will return to yourself again. Hadi belonged to his mother, but it was definitely his parents' responsibility. Hadi can not give goods, money to ma without Ceysa's knowledge. Indeed there is no prohibition, if Hadi already love Ceysa sufficiency. But right? Surely Ceysa did not feel considered, better love anything to the old man using the hands of the wife. So Ceysa's name is good in her parents-in-law's eyes, well my daughter-in-law loves her in-laws. That's the old man's mind." Givan watched the two young couples take turns.
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