Muara Kasih Single Mother
Bebrayan Mbangun
From the sale to the Hadinata family home, there is Pertiwi who does have a friendly and cheerful character, so that in the car driven by Pandu, as if only filled by the voice of Pertiwi only. Many of the things he indulged in starting from marriage, pregnancy, even not infrequently teasing his sister, Pandu who has a different nature with him.
"Vi, if it's new to you, what is a pendiem?" tanya Pertiwi who is now sitting behind the steering chair with Ervita.
"Lumayan Mbak ... why?" ask Ervita.
"Usually a man if he is married, his wife will be ceriwis loh. Much to say, that's a real example" Pertiwi replied with a laugh.
Ervita smiled there, "Means Mas Damar is too?" reply Ervita who guessed it might be her brother-in-law too.
"Yes, if the same wife herself is all talked about. What should not be talked about becomes discussed," replied Pertiwi with an amused chuckle.
Meanwhile Pandu laughed, "Yes tow Mas? If the same Mother Earth so much to talk well? Definitely the Kembak Pertiwi tuh," replied Pandu.
Damar who actually also seemed quiet finally admitted, "Yes, so often the same story Tiwi. Yes, living a household. If the lack of communication between husband and wife will also not be good" replied Damar.
"You too, Ndu?" ask Mama Pertiwi to her sister. For long time did not meet and according to Pertiwi, his sister was still the same. His face was calm and did not say much.
"Ask the same Dinda," replied Pandu.
Hearing the name Dinda, both Mbak Pertiwi and Mas Damar laughed. Could it be that Dinda was an affectionate call from Pandu to Ervita. It's funny to hear Pandu say Dinda's name.
"Dinda and Kanda?" asked Damar with a look.
"Yes, so Mas .. yes Nda," replied Pandu with a glance back.
Again Mbak Pertiwi also laughed, "Yuh, his sweet exceeds the Javanese Sugar. It turns out my sister can be very sweet," Pertiwi replied.
"Yes dong, Ma'am .. kan my feelings for Dinda are as special as Jogjakarta," replied Pandu again.
"Fixed, Pandu fell in love with this. Previously the guide was never kayak gini, Vi .. same you, Pandu ya so somewhat lost his sanity," replied Pertiwi who laughed so satisfied.
Until finally, the car driven by Pandu has arrived at the Hadinata family home, it looks like Pak Hadinata and Bu Tari have stood up and welcomed his daughter who just came from Lampung. The parents were crying, but this was a happy cry.
"Mr ... Mother," said Pertiwi when she got out of the car.
Although Pertiwi was impressed cherry, but when she was with her Father and Mother, this time Pertiwi was crying.
"Well, the pregnancy is big. Is it healthy, Ndug?" tanya Bu Tari hugged Pertiwi there.
"Alhamdulillah be healthy, ma'am," replied Pertiwi.
"Healthy, Mar ... yuk, sit down first," Mr. Hadinata invited to his entire family. This is also a rare moment where children, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren gather.
Indi was seen playing with Lintang in Pendopo, while the adults chatted together. Accompanied by a dish of warm Tea, Bakpia, and also Geplak. Yes, Bakpia and geplak are two traditional Jogja foods that are very popular with Pertiwi. So this time Bu Tari also provided it for her daughter.
"Well, all Pertiwi's favorite foods are Bu," said Pertiwi by taking Geplak, a food made from grated coconut and sugar.
"Yes, meet you in Jogja," replied Bu Tari.
"Lha, his favorite Ervi, Bu .. is his daughter two tablets" said Mr. Hadinata there.
Bu Tari laughed, "Ervi geplak and Bakpia also like Pak, this Bakpia Cheese taste of this product is the Vi you like?" said Bu Tari by thrusting Bakpia known Bu Tari very liked Ervi's.
"Iya Bu .. This one is Ervi's favorite. Matur nuwun Ibu," he replied.
"Mother must know Mr. .. will not discriminate between the child and the daughter-in-law. Make the mother Pertiwi, Pandu, Damar, and Ervi are all the same .. Mother's children," explained Bu Tari there.
Mr. Hadinata also seemed to nod his head, "Bebrayan or the family if the scope is large yes like this. Parents, children, ghosts, grandchildren, even to great-grandchildren later. Hopefully later if Pertiwi and Pandu get older, have the same taste. The bebrayan did not discriminate," replied Mr. Hadinata.
"Sign Sir," Pertiwi and Pandu reply simultaneously.
"You and your partner are also called bebrayan. Two people who are united and want to create a married life. The father remembered his message Simbah used to be, 'Building kromo ingkang satuhu, efficient boten bilih ngagem sepisan taste katresnan. Hananging needs blond-blonde katresnan lumeber ning uripmu siji kui' partner," said Mr. Hadinata.
"What does it mean sir?" Now it was Damar's turn to ask his father-in-law.
"It is the Javanese philosophy, Damar .. which means that building a strong and successful marriage is not enough to fall in love once, but it takes many times to fall in love with our only life partner," explained Mr. Hadinata.
The children and son-in-law responded by nodding their heads. Even with Bu Tari who feels that the advice and philosophy of life that is worth a shadow needs to be known and done by children today.
"Therefore, mbangun bebrayan ugi mbangun katresnan. Building a family also builds love, so that you both love each other, get along well, and until old can last," said Mr. Hadinata.
Pertiwi smiled, "Well, today there are two cool figures. The first is Pandu, the second is Father" he said.
Mr. Hadinata smiled, "Lha Pandu why Wi?" tanyakanya.
"Yes Pak .. he said Pandu his love for Ervi seistimwa Jogjakarta. Now get some advice, get some wonderful advice from you. Matur nuwun Bapak" he replied.
Yes, indeed building a married life is not enough if you just fall in love at first sight. However, it takes love many times, which is getting bigger every day. Abundant love, in order to live the ups and downs of married life and also last until death separates.