Muara Kasih Single Mother
Mutual Story
Sadness and sadness are not only felt by young people. Mothers can feel the same. Like Ervita and Pertiwi today. Pandu who works to Surabaya, and Damar who works in Bandar Lampung, make Ervita and Pertiwi equally sad. For Pertiwi herself, it was common for her to be LDR with her husband, but still when her husband was going back to Bandar Lampung, Pertiwi was crying and sad.
Ervita herself just this time LDR with Pandu, so she felt more sad. Even now his eyes are still so thick. While Bu Tari himself felt sorry for his two children. Just together sad.
"If the children are sad, the mother is also sad. Hopefully you two do not linger over well," said Bu Tari.
"Ervi is not used to being separated from Mas Pandu, Mom," said Ervita. Honestly, Ervita admitted that it was not easy for her to part from Pandu. Moreover this was for the first time, so indeed Ervita himself felt so sad.
"Not used, Vi ... Pertiwi was the beginning of the long distance with Damar also cry for a few days, do not eat, until just a few days Pertiwi was wearing her shirt Damar."
Hearing the story from Ms. Tari, Ervita laughed. Was it like that until Pertiwi had to wear her husband's clothes for several days. Ervita asked Pertiwi directly.
"Seriously is that Mama?" tanyakanya.
"Yes, Vi .. used to be sad when left far away the first time. Usually it is first, so once Mas Damar out of the island was very sad. After Mas Damar, got a place, then I was picked up, and went to Bandar Lampung. Until Lintang became pregnant, and after that I returned to Jogjakarta to give birth to Lintang," certita Pertiwi.
Talking and sharing like this, it was as if Ervita was also learning from experience. Because the experiences of others can also be valuable learning. Just like her who is now learning from Pertiwi. Indeed when deciding to LDR it was so heavy. However, if you do not have children, it is better. If you already have children, think about it more.
"It used to be hard to separate from Mas Damar. Just kange, so the inn is crying and not eating. In the past, Mother was confused because every day my eyes were swollen from crying," said Pertiwi again.
Remembering those times was hard. It was also unexpected that he was finally able to adapt well. Although still, every time separated because of sadness and tightness in the chest.
"I am also very sad, Ma'am .. will not be able to sleep later, because the same kangen Mas Pandu," replied Ervita.
Now it was precisely Ms. Tari who laughed. Apparently Ervita was so in love with Pandu. To the extent that Ervita admitted that it is likely that later tonight she could not sleep because of kangen with Pandu.
"Do you want me to go tonight?" ask Bu Tari.
Ervita quickly shook her head. "No need, Mom. It's okay" Ervita replied.
"Related?"
Ervita nodded her head. "Yes, it's okay, ma'am. Maybe a day or two will be heavy. However, slowly it will be just counting the days. He said Mas Pandu, if lived well and sincerely, later the week will feel fast, Mom," replied Ervita.
"Pinter guide yes Ma'am .. to calm Ervita. Even Ervita could already accept. Believe, Vi ... Pandu is not a neko-neko man. Pandu must only work. It won't be weird. Pandu can you believe," Pertiwi replied.
"If with his past then why the hell is Mbak?" Ervita tried asking her sister-in-law, who knew she was getting a different version of the story. Just want to know.
"When breaking up, Mas Pandu was upset that it was not Mbak?" ask Ervita again.
Pertiwi laughed too. "Yes, galau. Her name is courtship and betrayal, Vi ... Guide that type of man when in love he will be earnest and keep it wholehearted. However, so far, his love is not as great as his love for you Kok, Vi," Pertiwi replied.
"What the hell is Mama?" Ervita asked again.
"Yes, the way you look at you was different from before. In addition, he is willing to work to leave later to accompany you to Puskesmas, nemenin for his immunity Indi. If it's not love, what's Vi?"
Ms. Tari nodded her head. "True, Vi .. used to be that for five years, often Mother and Father was joking, what would be introduced to his friend Father and Mother. Or introduced to the children of other Batik kiosk owners, but Pandu refused to want. Then, when Mother tells you that, Pandu wants to help guard the stall. Even when your gestational age is getting bigger, Pandu is also the one who drives and picks you up. It's actually Pandu has put a taste in you for a long time, since knowing you might," replied Bu Tari.
In fact it is. The guide who was actually a quiet person and as if closing his heart, was finally able to get close to Ervita himself. Approach that seems not impressed striking, but in fact Pandu managed to get Ervita. Even so Ervita wanted to be lured by him, Pandu also chose to move directly and proposed to Ervita. Evidence that he was indeed very serious with Ervita.
"The guide is a man you can trust, Vi .. for matters of loyalty, maybe men today there is nothing like Pandu," replied Bu Tari.
"Yes, Mom ... Ervi also strongly believes in Mas Pandu," he replied.
"It should be. Many times, Father and Mother always say to all of you, you must trust each other. Because, one of the foundations to maintain the household is mutual trust," said Bu Tari.
Now Ervita and Pertiwi both nodded their heads. "Agreed, Madam ... The same is true of Mas Damar. There may be some bad news sometimes. However, Pertiwi always believed in her husband. Trusting Mas Damar. Furthermore, when Pertiwi has followed Mas Damar to Lampung, Pertiwi can see for himself how Mas Damar works and also his friends who are anyone, Pertiwi, precisely his friends Mas Damar in Lampung was like his friends Pertiwi himself," he replied.
"The experience of Mbak Pertiwi is precisely a lot yes Mbak .. how to monitor and acquaintance with new people. It was fun, Ma'am," replied Ervita.
"You do not want, Vi .. moreover there our housing is one complex with his friends Mas Damar the other, so often gather and play together. Lintang also has friends. It is so merantau must be so, Vi .. however we are social beings who need others to socialize," reply Pertiwi again.
"Agree, Ma'am .. that's what Ervita felt when he went to Jogja. At that time, there was a friend Ervi who helped. Even so she graduated from college, she returned to Solo, and Ervi so settled in Jogja because she married a Jogja, "he replied.
"In the big family Hadinata yes, Vi," said Pertiwi.
Ervita laughed too. "Yes, so just working at the kiosk, continue to be a son-in-law yes, Ma'am.
"if Mom had thought anyway, Vi .. because from the beginning the way Pandu treats you is different," replied Bu Tari again.
It feels like Ervita is happy now. Her husband was a great man, who looked at her differently. Not to mention his desire either. Instead, Pandu is a man who does a lot of things without having to say a lot of sweet promises.