Muara Kasih Single Mother
Ambangun Tresna
Leaving behind the disarray of Firhan and Wati's house. While not far from Solo, precisely in Jogjakarta, there are young couples who are enjoying their role of parenthood. Who else if not Ervita and Pandu who feel the beauty of being parents. Especially for Pandu, who after all Irene is his biological daughter. So, Pandu also learned a lot with the presence of Irene.
Even a week after Ervita gave birth, Pandu himself felt like he still wanted to be at home and help his wife. Especially when now at home he has three beautiful women who complete his days, it feels home becomes more fun for Pandu.
"Don't go to work anyway?" asked Ervita that morning.
"Still want to nemenin you, Nda," replied Pandu.
It feels like Pandu wants to spend a lot of time at home. After all, this is only one week after Ervita gave birth. He still wants to be home and can do a lot for his wife.
"Work only, it's okay. Mas. I'm fine" Ervita replied.
"Honestly, Dinda .. seeing you give birth to that sick first, I want you first. I'm at home two weeks well," said Pandu.
Ervita widened her eyes. According to him, the two weeks included a long time. Ervita is healthy now. Yesterday also when doing a postnatal check also the stitches were almost dry. Doctor Arsy said that Ervita should eat vegetables and fish, no need to abstain anything. In addition, eating fruit as a source of fiber. Nevertheless, Ervita is still advised to take vitamin C that will restore the condition of the mother postpartum and stimulate new skin tissue in the wound suture.
"What in the meantime, Mom?" ask Ervita.
Pandu quickly shook his head. "No, two weeks is good. The consulting office also has its own. Safe. I can actually help for this batik sale. Can ya?"
Hearing her husband's reply, Ervita smiled. "When it's more tired at home, Mas. You have to take care of three people. Doesn't Mas Pandu mind?" ask Ervita.
Indeed, there are people who think that being in the house actually needs the body to be more tired, because many are taken care of. Starting from helping a wife who if described can be some kind of homework. Meanwhile, if you choose to enter work, just focus on completing the work and the body will not be so tired.
"Capek for the family is a blessing, Nda," replied Pandu.
My God, Ervita was so happy with the answer from her husband. A man who put his family first. Yes, Pandu is a family man. A man who would rather spend his time with his family.
"Masyaallah .. You are very good, Mas. I think God showered me with kindness after meeting you" Ervita replied.
"Not really, honey. Family should be like this, Nda. His name is Ambangun Tresna. Building the love. Not just for the wife, but for the children. Later when we are old, also love son-in-law and grandchildren."
When people are married, it is like building a house. Where requires materials such as sand, cement, bricks, and others. Everything is arranged in such a way that a house managed to stand and sturdy, can be occupied for many years. Likewise, when building a household, it takes love, sincerity, loyalty, and commitment to maintain the household until the end of time.
"Mas Pandu is indeed top, deh .. extraordinary."
"Our children will surely love having a father like you. It's amazing" Ervita replied.
Pandu smiled too. "I'm also happy to have you, Indi, and Irene as my family. I promise, all my life, I will always take care of and make you happy" she said.
"Amin, thank you very much Pandu. May Mas also always be healthy, his work is carried out by God. Tired of being lillah for our whole family" Ervita replied.
"Amin, thank you for your prayers, my heart," replied Pandu.
When they talked for a long time, Irene woke up and cried. Pandu smiled, now he also knew that when a child was so small crying seemed to be a means of communication from the baby to his parents.
"Let me carry Irene here, Nda," said Pandu who took the initiative first, and now the Jayah was standing.
Pandu also walked to Irene's baby box and then held the baby. Have not given to Ervita, because Pandu felt something wet when carrying Irene.
"In the meantime, yayah checked first yeah," said Pandu.
Ervita also approached and saw her husband who was cleaning Irene there. Ervita let it go, because even parenting has the responsibility of Father and Mother. A father if you want to help to nurture his baby child is actually good, because the Father wants to be directly involved.
"Nda, ask for help diapers dong," Pinta Pandu.
"Yes, I take it, Jayah. Pissing the Irenenya?" ask Ervita.
"Yes, full of diapers," replied Pandu.
After Irene finished cleaning, then Ervita petted Irene and gave her ASI. While Pandu throw the former diapers into the trash first.
"Well, I guess it's also tresna, Nda. Tresnaku lan tresnaamu," replied Pandu.
What Pandu means is to build love, through the love that both have, the love of Pandu and the love of Ervita. The source of love that will be bestowed on his two daughters.
"Excite, Mas Pandu," replied Ervita.
Pandu smiled too. "Enjoyed having a little baby first, Nda. It used to be that baby Indi, I know, just wasn't involved much. Now being able to get involved directly, it feels really fun."